I know its HOT HOT HOT right now all across the country but tonight’s SHE TALKED is one to grab an ice cold glass of liquid and settle in for an amazing read! I met Sarah at a networking function and I was so taken by her presence, spirit and story I felt lshe was a MUST for our Sunday night sessions. Not only is she a single mum to the gorgeous Jacob, she is a hard working business woman, and her story is one of courage and sheer determination to live everyday as if it was your last – and for Sarah, she experienced what was meant to be her “last” and came back from death itself to live an abundant and large life! x x Lisa
What would your best friend say about you?
Big Loving Heart that wants to help the world
Tell us about your typical day in a few sentences?
Wakeup, check FB, emails, and messages. Wake up my son, get him organized for school and drop him off. Come back home for brekky take pills and vitamins respond to emails, and manage me social media pages. Start my hairdressing clients, eat lunch, check my online direct selling business, pick Jacob up from school, prepare snack and organize if he has homework, make dinner while at the same time put on a load of washing, do dishes, organize Jacob for bed time. And then its time for ME!
What is the best thing in your life that takes up most of your “thought” life?
My enthusiasm towards life in general and all the wonderful opportunities out there. My wonderful imagination that keeps me dreaming big. I’m always coming up with new ideas for businesses or products. Its very overactive.
If you could go back and tell your 15yr old self one thing, what would it be?
Don’t worry about what anyone else thinks, just get out there and give it go. Reach for the Stars and that “Attitude” Problem that some people scolded you for is going to save your life in the future ,so keep it up!
What is the most helpful piece of advice anyone has given you?
My Mum has been my best supporter and cheer squad.
Yesterday is History, tomorrow is a Mystery , all we have is now and today and that is why its called the Present.
I used to waste a lot of my precious energy on living in the past and wishing I could change things, my mum made me realize their was nothing I could do to change the past but I could turn my life around now and in the future!!
If you created a bumper bar sticker what would it say?
When Life Gives you Lemons Make Lemonade
What is one tip you would give for balancing your personal and professional life?
I’m still trying to work that one out LOL
Famous five you would invite to your place for dinner?
Richard Branson, Marianne Williamson, Oprah Winfrey, Katy Perry, and Johnny Depp
When you are down in the dumps how do you get yourself back up?
I let myself grieve the situation and sit in the moment for a while. I call it “Having a Pity Party”. I don’t let it last for long usually only about half a day, then I pick myself and start to take action to change the situation. I look for solutions and use all that energy into positive outcomes instead of using my energy to wallow. I also look back onto my life 2.5yrs ago and remember the fight of my life to survive my cardiac arrest and multiple organ failure and I think that no problem is hard enough that I cant get over. I also talk out loud and say; YOUR NOT KICKING ME DOWN TODAY UNIVERSE!!
What couldn’t you live without?
I’m a sucker for my mobile phone!! HA HA, its my everything,. communication, work tool, email, radio, Internet, camera and video! I love technology.
What is one of the proudest moments of your life?
Definitely the birth of my son Jacob, wow what a wonderful gift of life and love and to understand what the real meaning of “Unconditional Love” is.
What is one of the most challenging seasons of your life and what got you through?
July 2011 – December 2022
On the 22nd July 2011 I suffered a Cardiac Arrest and was clinically dead for 45 minutes as doctors and nurses at the Royal Adelaide Hospital fought hard to save my life. That night they told my family that I had a 50% chance of making it through the night and if I did I would have multiple organ failure and be brain damaged. They we informed to gather my family and friends together to come and say their goodbyes. I woke up 2 days later in the Intensive Care Unit with Doctors in my face asking if I knew who I was and where I was. I went to lift my arm to show him my arm band only to realize I couldn’t move, my whole body wouldn’t move, no matter how hard I told my brain to lift my hand it wasn’t working. No one had answers for my family as they had never seen a case like mine before. I was poked, prodded, tested and touched until they came to the conclusion that I had an Auto Immune Illness that was muscle related. They worked out that I didn’t have organ failure when a friend of mine came to visit me and told me to blink my eyes – I blinked so hard. Because of the Cardiac Arrest I did have Multiple Organ failure, my kidneys and respiratory system weren’t working and my liver decided he was on his way out to. When I woke up all I could think about was my son Jacob who was six at the time, I was determined to get home to my little boy. He was NOT going to be with any other parents, that is what kept me going.I was gong to make it home to that boy I didn’t care how it was going to happen. At the time I had a lot of thinking time as I was unable to speak for 6 weeks with a tracheostomy helping me breathe. I had to learn to give into trying to control my environment and to also let people help me because I had no choice. I told myself I could either hate it and be angry, or learn just to be and accept it. I was lucky because of my age the RAH did everything possible to help me to get better, including a physiotherapist to start working on getting my movement back. It was my ATTITUDE that got me through because the more the doctors gave me grim outcomes and medical stories the more determined I was to prove them wrong!! I also believed everyday in miracles, I prayed and would tell myself that miracles DO happen and I was going to be one of them. 5 months later with lots of determination and help from the medical staff, I walked out of hospital on a walking stick and now everyday I give the universe gratitude for the small things in life.
What gets you fired up?
Women’ s Equal Rights
Violence Against Women and Children
Which three things would you take on an island for one week?
A Genie, to grant me 3 wishes
Sunscreen
Sarong
What is your greatest hope for 2014?
To be financially free by the end of the year
How do you nurture ALL of you?
Definitely with time out for myself, plus I eat lots of salad fruit and vegetables. I only drink Ionized water which has an Alkaline Ph Level, meditate when I can, dance, sing out loud, and love op shopping. I also LOVE to do garment detailing, I bead garments, it totally relaxes me and its therapeutic. I use chemical free household products to cut down the amount of chemicals I come into contact with everyday. I use Young Living Oils everyday, I diffuse them, put some of them in my cooking and special water concoctions I make up with cinnamon, vanilla, green tea, lemon slices and my Alkaline water. My ultimate is getting a beautiful Massage. I have a massage therapist with the most amazing healing hands.
What goal have you set yourself?
To become a Millionaire in 5 yrs Time!
What has been your favourite travel destination and why?
Bali, I visited in July with my Mum and my Son Jacob, I stayed at Sanur Beach it was so wonderful,. Our driver took us too see more local attractions. We stopped off at a Balinese school, I wanted to show my son what it was like to live with very little money. We took lollies for all the children, they were fascinated with Jacobs green eyes and blonde hair. The same for my mother she has blonde hair blue eyes. The place where we stopped was far away from Tourists. I loved the experience a lot. I also had a Nanny to help me with Jacob on the trip, I asked her to bring her 3 yr old daughter to the Resort to play with Jacob, she had never seen an Ipad or Laptop. She had also never driven in a car. We took them out shopping and we bought Pizza for lunch. Our driver for the week was fantastic, I keep in touch with both of them still. I loved the scenery in Bali, I loved the Balinese people and I loved feeling like I was royalty for a week. We all had a fantastic time.
What character of a movie would you LOVE to play?
Roxie Hart -Chicago, I love to Sing and Broadway melodies are my favourite
In your business, what is the most rewarding experience?
I am a professional hairdresser, make up, body/face painting artist – I love to see peoples faces light up when they look in the mirror. It makes my heart feel so happy. My business motto is “Be your own kind of Beautiful” because every human being is unique in their own way and I like to make it shine!
Sarah Cotis Make – Up Artist and Hairdresser